Family and Matrimonial Law

Domestic Violence Awareness: Resources, Insights, and Support

October 30, 2025

Check out the Domestic Violence Awareness Month newsletter by our Matrimonial and Family Law Practice Group on recognizing signs of abuse, understanding available legal protections, and finding support for those in need.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October 16, 2025

Mandelbaum Barrett PC Partners David Carton and Rebecca Freno, experienced New Jersey family law attorneys, understand the complex realities families face when domestic violence and child custody issues intersect. They help clients navigate not only the legal process but also the emotional and practical challenges that come with these sensitive matters.

Daniel M. Serviss to Speak on Family Law Webinar: Love, Custody, and Court—Family Law Unscripted

October 14, 2025

Starting your journey in family law? Don’t miss this practical CLE webinar designed for newly admitted New Jersey attorneys. Join Daniel M. Serviss, Partner in the Matrimonial and Family Law Group, as he shares real-world insights and lessons from the courtroom in “Love, Custody, and Court: Family Law Unscripted.” 📅 November 12, 2025 | 12–2 […]

Nicole Kidman & Keith Urban Divorce: What Their Custody and Child Support Agreement Can Teach Families

October 6, 2025

Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban’s divorce has shocked Hollywood. After 19 years of marriage, Kidman recently filed citing irreconcilable differences. While the headlines focus on their staggering net worth—Kidman reportedly worth $250M and Urban $75M—the court filings reveal something more familiar: issues of child custody, child support, and co-parenting.

The Black Hole: Navigating the Passing of a Spouse During a Divorce

August 4, 2025

In a recent vlog, Xena A. Balcazar, an associate in the Family Law and Elder Law Practice Groups at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, discusses a longstanding legal ambiguity in matrimonial law: what occurs when a spouse passes away before a divorce is finalized. Commonly referred to as the “black hole” in divorce proceedings, this complex issue has now been clarified through recent amendments to New Jersey’s equitable distribution statute.

‘Adolescence’ and the Dangers of Social Media

April 2, 2025

In the context of divorce and separation, these discussions are not easy, but they are necessary. Parents must consider how social media affects their children’s well-being and have open, proactive conversations about boundaries and oversight.

Engaged this Valentine’s Day? Here’s What to Know About the Legal Side of Rings

February 14, 2025

Valentine’s Day is all about love, celebration, and making lasting memories. For many couples, it’s also the prime time for proposals. February is one of the most popular months for engagements, with 37% of proposals happening between November and February. The month of February is filled with romantic gestures under sparkling lights and heartfelt moments shared with family, making it a truly special time for new beginnings.

Parenting Through Divorce: Navigating Social Media Challenges for Kids

January 28, 2025

With more people talking about regulating kids’ use of social media, this issue is more important than ever. It’s not always easy for parents to agree on how to handle it, but open communication is key.

Adultery and Divorce: 100-Year-Old Law Repealed

January 14, 2025

Rebecca E. Frino and David S. Carton, from Mandelbaum Barrett PC’s Matrimonial and Family Law Practice Group, discuss the role adultery plays in divorce cases in New York and New Jersey.

Top 10 Things Engaged Couples Need to Create a Prenuptial Agreement

January 9, 2025

Engagement season is a time of joy and excitement, as couples celebrate their love and plan for a future together. Amid the whirlwind of wedding planning, one practical step that can strengthen your partnership is creating a prenuptial agreement. While it may not seem romantic, a prenup fosters open communication and provides clarity for your financial future, helping to build a solid foundation for your marriage.

Holiday Season Engagements: What You Need to Know About the Rules of Engagement Rings

December 20, 2024

In New Jersey, engagement rings are treated as conditional gifts. If the engagement is called off, the ring must be returned to the giver because the condition—marriage—was not fulfilled. While New Jersey courts generally focus on the conditional nature of the gift, fault can sometimes be considered when determining who keeps the ring. For example, if the giver’s actions directly caused the engagement to end, they may forfeit their right to reclaim the ring (NJ Law Journal). Proving intent beyond a ring being a gift conditioned on the marriage taking place can be challenging.

Planning for the Future: Marital Separation Agreements and Special Needs Care

December 16, 2024

In their latest vlog, Donny Dennison, Esq., Elder Law Associate, and Xena Balcazar, Esq., Family Law Associate at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, explore critical topics for families navigating marital separation and divorce while planning for a child with special needs. Topics include: ✅ Guardianships and planning for adulthood ✅ Preserving government benefits ✅ Establishing Special Needs […]

New York Repeals 1907 Adultery Law: What It Means for Divorce Cases

December 12, 2024

On November 22, 2024, New York repealed its 1907 adultery law, which had criminalized adultery as a misdemeanor. This historic change aligns New York with most other states where adultery is no longer treated as a crime. While this repeal eliminates criminal penalties, many are asking: Does adultery still matter in divorce cases? The short […]

Cyber Harassment: A Growing Concern in Domestic Violence Cases

October 14, 2024

As technology becomes more integrated into our lives, it has introduced new challenges, particularly in domestic violence cases. One of the most alarming trends is the rise of cyber harassment, where individuals use electronic communication—such as social media, text messages, and emails—to harass, threaten, or intimidate others. In New Jersey, cyber harassment is recognized as a cause of action under domestic violence laws.

Matrimonial and Family Law Insights: Breaking Down Mediation

July 16, 2024

Looking for a way to achieve an amicable divorce? At Mandelbaum Barrett PC, we believe in the power of mediation to facilitate a smoother and more efficient process.

Lynne Strober Shares Insights on Asset Division in Episode 1 of Ways Thru Divorce

July 11, 2024

Divorce can be an emotional and complex journey, especially when children are involved. Lynne Strober, Partner and Co-Chair of the Matrimonial and Family Law Practice Group at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, recently shared her insights on dividing the assets in the new TV series, Ways Thru Divorce. To watch Lynne’s segment, “Getting Your Fair Share of […]

Matrimonial and Family Law Insights: The Purpose of Early Settlement Panel

July 2, 2024

Facing a divorce and unsure how to handle the court process? At Mandelbaum Barrett PC, we provide comprehensive guidance, including navigating the Early Settlement Panel (ESP).

Matrimonial and Family Law Insights: Importance of Negotiation

June 26, 2024

Considering divorce and wondering how to effectively manage the process? At Mandelbaum Barrett PC, we emphasize the power of negotiation to achieve the best outcomes for our clients.

Intersection of Criminal & Family Law

June 26, 2024

In their video discussion, Rebecca Frino and Robert Scrivo of Mandelbaum Barrett PC explore the intricate overlap of family law and criminal defense. They highlight real-life scenarios where these legal domains intersect, addressing complexities from domestic violence allegations influencing divorce proceedings to navigating the implications of white-collar crimes on family dynamics.

Matrimonial and Family Law Insights: Steps to Navigating a Divorce Case

June 5, 2024

Introducing “Matrimonial and Family Law Insights.” This biweekly series covers key topics to help you navigate family law matters with confidence.

Thinking about divorce and not sure where to start? At Mandelbaum Barrett PC, we personalize the process to fit your unique situation, whether it’s filing a complaint or exploring mediation. Every family is different, and so is every divorce case.

Inside the Heart of Family Law: A Journey with Lynne Strober

April 29, 2024

Meet Lynne Strober, Co-Chair of the Matrimonial and Family Law Practice Group at Mandelbaum Barrett PC. With over 45 years of experience, Lynne shares her journey into family law with a profound sense of purpose, driven by her background in social work and social justice. She sees family law as a dynamic landscape where she actively guides individuals through complex legal matters, advocating for them in negotiations and courtroom proceedings. For Lynne, it’s not just a profession—it’s a vocation to effect meaningful change in her clients’ lives.

Evolution of Family Law: Insights from Rebecca Frino

April 15, 2024

Rebecca Frino, Partner at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, observes the evolving landscape of family law shaped by judicial backlog, societal shifts, and legislative reforms. Emphasizing adaptation, she promotes alternative dispute resolution amidst court delays. Notable changes include equitable custody trends and adjustments in financial statutes, reflecting modern dynamics. Rebecca’s commitment to staying informed ensures effective representation for her clients in this dynamic legal terrain.

Insights into Mental Health Challenges in Divorce: A Perspective from Lynne Strober

April 1, 2024

Explore Lynne Strober’s insights on the evolving landscape of mental health issues within divorce cases. With a keen understanding of familial dynamics, she emphasizes the impact of societal shifts on emotional well-being during divorce. The escalation in mental health challenges is attributed to global uncertainties, making divorce proceedings increasingly complex.

Navigating Family Law with Rebecca Frino: Empowering Clients Through Education at Mandelbaum Barrett PC

March 18, 2024

Rebecca Frino, a Partner at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, embodies dedication to educating and empowering clients in family law. She emphasizes transparency, ensuring clients understand their rights and decisions’ ramifications. Rather than imposing solutions, she enables informed choices, recognizing the deeply personal nature of family law. Her commitment resonates throughout the firm, offering clarity and support amid emotional complexities.

Navigating Divorce with Compassion and Strategy with Rebecca Frino

February 12, 2024

Rebecca Frino, Partner at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, brings a strategic touch to divorce proceedings, acknowledging the personal nature of family law. She recognizes the emotional complexities involved, emphasizing the importance of integrating humanity into a system often perceived as clinical. Rebecca offers clients space to process emotions, providing guidance and empowerment through empathy and legal experience.

Lynne Strober Addresses Mental Health Issues That May Impact a Divorce

February 2, 2024

In a recent courtroom drama, Lynne Strober, a seasoned family law attorney, confronted an unprecedented situation. Her client, likening herself to a robot, voiced subservience to her spouse’s wishes. Strober promptly flagged this concerning declaration to the judge, advocating for a thorough mental evaluation. She stresses the necessity of prioritizing client well-being and collaborating with medical experts in such delicate cases, highlighting the intricate interplay between legal proceedings and mental health considerations.

Navigating Mental Health Issues in Divorce: Insights from Lynne Strober

February 1, 2024

Divorce complexities heighten with mental health issues, as emphasized by Lynne Strober, Partner at Mandelbaum Barrett PC. She delves into prevalent challenges, from custody debates to privacy concerns under HIPAA laws. Strober navigates the legal labyrinth with sensitivity, acknowledging the impact on employment and children’s welfare, advocating for a compassionate approach throughout.

The Victims Assistance and Survivor Protection Act Set to Reshape the Legal Landscape of Domestic Violence Claims in New Jersey

January 22, 2024

The Victims Assistance and Survivor Protection Act (VASPA) in New Jersey, effective January 1, 2024, addresses gaps in restraining orders for stalking or cyber-harassment victims without a defined relationship with the perpetrator. Superseding previous legislation, VASPA expands protections, allowing victims to obtain orders irrespective of their connection to the alleged actor. While it bridges legal deficiencies, challenges emerge in balancing victim protection, preventing misuse, and managing potential court filing surges impacting the judiciary’s efficiency.

You Can’t Return an Agreement Like You Can Ugly Sweaters

December 28, 2023

In Negron v. Benitez, the Appellate Division rejected a plea to reconsider a custody-modifying consent order, citing no significant changes in just four months. The case illustrates common “buyer’s remorse” in family law. If entering agreements this holiday season, beware—they might endure, and the difficulty of undoing terms is costly, time-consuming, and likely burdensome.

The Intricate Intersection of Divorce, Mental Health, and Child Custody Battles

November 17, 2023

Divorce is a deeply distressing experience, unleashing emotions like sadness, fear, and anger. Mental health challenges exacerbate the stress, especially when vying for child custody. Courts rely on experts to assess parental well-being, focusing on behaviors to safeguard the child’s best interests. Protective measures, like supervision and counseling, are implemented. A custody trial may involve various professionals and agencies. Mental health issues demand ongoing attention, and parents must prioritize their children’s well-being, even seeking therapy to navigate the challenges of co-parenting.

Video: Gray Divorce

October 9, 2023

David Carton, Co-Chair of our Matrimonial and Family Law practice, dives into the intricate world of Grey Divorce, where individuals over 50 navigate the challenges of parting ways. From reevaluating retirement plans and extended alimony considerations to financial intricacies and evolving family dynamics, he will explore the unique facets that shape this journey.

Video: Rebecca’s Journey to Family Law

October 5, 2023

From mapping neural pathways to untangling legal disputes: Dive into the unexpected journey that led, Rebecca Frino, from the OR to the courtroom.

A Look at Temporary Restraining Orders

October 3, 2023

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, a time to unite and support victims and survivors of abuse. New Jersey has one of the strongest Domestic Violence laws in the United States. It offers victims of domestic violence immediate protection, and if restraints are made permanent, the Final Restraining Order is extremely difficult to get lifted […]

Prioritizing Privacy in Family Law Cases

September 15, 2023

Whether you are a well-known figure in the entertainment industry, a celebrated sports personality, a thriving business mogul, or a member of our community facing unique circumstances, privacy becomes paramount when it comes to personal matters like family issues. This is where a family lawyer’s commitment to valuing a client’s privacy plays a crucial role. […]

The Rise of Prenuptial Agreements: Why You Should Consider One

September 7, 2023

Approximately half of all first marriages end in divorce in the United States. The rate of divorce is even higher for those who marry multiple times. Doesn’t it make sense, then, to consider protecting your income and assets to reduce financial uncertainty in the event of death or divorce? The Growing Popularity of Prenuptial Agreements […]

Listen Now: Insights on Dating During Divorce and Alimony Impact with Lynne Strober, Esq.

August 17, 2023

Co-Chair of the firm’s Matrimonial and Family Law practice group, Lynne Strober, Esq., was a guest on “The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz” podcast on CRN Digital Talk Radio. Listen now to gain insights into dating during a divorce action and its potential impact on alimony.

Co-Chair of Matrimonial and Family Law, David S. Carton, Receives New Jersey Supreme Court Matrimonial Law Recertification

December 2, 2022

Mandelbaum Barrett PC, PC congratulates Co-Chair of Matrimonial and Family Law, David S. Carton, on his recent recertification in Matrimonial Law by the Supreme Court of New Jersey. What is a certified matrimonial law attorney? Taken from the NJ Judiciary’s website, a certified matrimonial law attorney is an attorney who is “able to demonstrate sufficient levels of […]

Understanding the Often-Complex Legal Process in Domestic Violence Cases

October 17, 2022

October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month and it’s important to take a moment to understand what domestic violence is and look at what can often be a complex legal process. What is Domestic Violence? According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, domestic violence is the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and/or […]

WHAT IS THE AMERICAN ACADEMY OF MATRIMONIAL LAWYERS AND WHY SHOULD YOU HIRE ONE OF THEIR FELLOWS?

July 5, 2022

AAML is a national organization with chapters in most states.  There are approximately 1,650 Fellows in the United States and 52 Fellows in New Jersey.  Our Family Law Co-Chair Lynne Strober is proud to be one of those Fellows. The AAML is dedicated to providing and promoting the highest degree of professionalism and excellence in […]

Divorce and the Child With Special Needs: Be Aware of Child Support Payments

February 24, 2022

Depending on which statistics you believe, between 40 and 50 percent of first marriages will end in divorce or permanent separation, and second marriages fare even worse. While there is no such thing as a "typical" divorce, a divorcing couple that has a child with special needs faces an even more complicated series of decisions and choices than most. Family law attorneys, often well trained in the complicated and emotionally charged world of divorce settlement, may not have all of the answers for the divorcing parents of a child with special needs. In these cases, it is important to meet with a special needs planner to discuss options for your child. One important consideration is the impact child support payments will have on the child's eligibility for Supplemental Security Income (SSI).

Who gets custody? Shared Parenting continues to attract attention nationally

February 10, 2022

The Washington Post Magazine recently featured a story spotlighting 50/50 shared parenting in custody cases. This topic continues to garner attention on both the state and national levels. The Family Law Department here at Mandelbaum Barrett PC is well-versed in this arena, having just published an analysis on the issue in the New Jersey Law Journal. Read that article here.

At present, there is no presumption or automatic consideration of 50/50 shared parenting time in the State of New Jersey. Two bills, however, remain pending with the legislature on these issues. Bills have been proposed in 39 of 50 states requiring that judges either consider shared custody or abide by a presumption of shared custody. Modern attitudes towards working parents and dual working-parent households, as well as psychological studies, appear to be fueling trends.

A New York Times article from the January 30th Sunday Style Section caught my eye. Louise Rafkin authored the piece titled: How to Help a Divorcing Friend? Start by Listening.

February 10, 2022

More than listening, parties need to obtain the benefit of the bargain reached in a divorce resolution. Sometimes, divorcing or divorced people feel overwhelmed when their spouse or former spouse fail to comply with court orders. They had reached a bargain, but suddenly they are no longer reaping its benefit. When this happens, it may be necessary to formally apply to the court for enforcement if letters or more informal requests don't work. Wronged parties then end up incurring counsel fees to simply try and get the benefit of their original agreement.

HOW COVID IS MAKING DIVORCE CASES MORE COMPLICATED

February 10, 2022

I read the January 30, 2022 CNN article, "How COVID is Making Divorce Cases More Complicated." The current difficulties arising in divorce and post-divorce cases go far beyond masks and vaccines. COVID impacts the resolution of cases. In our current environment, it is harder to obtain a meeting of the minds and achieve a fair resolution. The world lacks definitive answers to COVID questions and creates a more difficult environment. This time of uncertainty is coupled with greater anxiety, heightened frustration, and a lack of patience in everything and particularly with regard to endeavoring to resolve divorce cases.

A Throuple Can Buy a House. What Other Legal Rights Do Throuples Have?

September 7, 2021

If you're not familiar with throuples yet, you probably will be sometime soon. Throuple is the trendy term for a polyamorous relationship between people who claim an equal and exclusive commitment with each other. We're not talking threesomes, but three in a couple.

Family Law Alert: NJ Supreme Court Modified Court Rules and Procedures

March 30, 2020

March 30, 2020 By David S. Carton and Lynne Strober In light of the Coronavirus pandemic, the New Jersey Supreme Court has entered an Order substantially modifying our Court Rules and Procedures. We will continue to stay on top of any changes, but we thought the portions that apply to the Family Part would be […]

5 Tips for Co-Parents Navigating Through COVID-19 Issues in New Jersey

March 20, 2020

The spread of COVID-19 has created a stressful dynamic for many divorced co-parents in New Jersey, as well as couples who are in the process of getting divorced. During this difficult time, you may be dealing with crucial issues of custody, parenting time, communication, and the enforcement and payment of support obligations.

How Much Does Divorce Cost?

March 4, 2020

David S. Carton, Co-Chair of Mandelbaum Barrett PC's Matrimonial and Family Law Practice Group, was quoted in a Fox Business article about the cost of divorce.

Calculating Alimony in New Jersey as a Result of the Tax Code Changes

February 24, 2020

Recent Cases That Protect LGBTQ Rights

August 28, 2018

As a Firm that supports LGBTQ individuals, we are excited to share two case studies from Family Lawyer Magazine that help to establish precedents which protect their rights. In both of these cases same-sex couples rights were being undermined under the guise of "religious liberty."

Family Law Practice Update on New Decision About Children's Student Loans and Marital Separation Agreements

August 12, 2018

Our Family Law Practice Group takes great pride in keeping you informed of the latest family and matrimonial law decisions. There is a recent unpublished Appellate Division decision that we wanted to make you aware of that is causing significant discussions among family law practitioners. While unpublished decisions are not considered precedent setting, they can be provided to a Court for consideration in like cases. This particular decision involves whether or not children can be required to obtain and be responsible for student loans as part of a Matrimonial Settlement Agreement. Read on to see what the Appellate Court said in MFW v. GO.

Decision Making in Divorce Cases Involving Children With Special Needs

February 12, 2018

February 12, 2018 By Lynne Strober Making decisions with regard to educational and medical issues involving a special needs child can be challenging for parents under ordinary circumstances, but is further complicated when parents who are divorced or in the midst of a divorce action are unable to agree on such important issues. Most judgments […]

The Use of Social Media in Family Law Cases

December 11, 2017

Family Lawyer Magazine  https://familylawyermagazine.com/articles/social-media-and-family-law-cases/ The legal profession is utilizing social media to gather information about clients, potential clients, opposing parties, witnesses, jurors, and even judges. Increasingly, social media information has also become valuable in family law cases. It can be used as a basis to assert claims of cohabitation, challenge custody, address alimony, etc. Often, […]

Family Law Decision Alert: Domestic Violence, Siblings and Covert Surveillance

May 3, 2017

The Firm's Matrimonial and Family Law Department has issued a Family Law Decision Alert following a recent case decision in a domestic violence case between siblings. To view this alert, please visit: https://lnkd.in/daPh6is

New Child Support Termination Law's Impact on the Special Needs Child/Adult

April 19, 2017

April 19, 2017 By Lynne Strober New Jersey’s new child support termination statute took effect on February 1, 2017 and applies to all child support orders issued prior to or after its effective date, and will impact divorced parents of disabled dependents. It establishes 19 as the age when all court-ordered obligations to pay or […]

Member Lynne Strober Discusses How the New Alimony Statute Defines Cohabitation and What It Could Mean for You

February 13, 2016

The law on the impact of cohabitation on the entitlement to alimony has changed. The law had required that two people live together in a relationship tantamount to marriage before that relationship could terminate a payor’s obligation to pay alimony to a former spouse. Then

Children and the Ex-Spouse’s Paramour – Members Lynne Strober and David Carton Provide Analysis of the Recent Mantle v. Mantle Decision

February 12, 2016

For many years in New Jersey, there has been a moral/legal debate on whether and to what extent children of a marriage should be exposed to the new romantic partner of one of the parents once the parents are separated or divorced. The first decision dealing