Navigating youth sports as a co-parent can be challenging. From juggling schedules and transportation to managing costs and emotions, the journey is often complex—especially for divorced families.
Rebecca Frino, a Partner in the Matrimonial and Family Law Practice Group at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, recently shared her expertise during a featured interview on Sponsor Spotlight for Big State Sports. Drawing from her years of family law experience, Rebecca outlined strategies to help parents create a supportive environment for young athletes.
Clear Communication Is Key in Co-Parenting
Rebecca emphasized the importance of parents agreeing on critical decisions before enrolling their child in sports. Key considerations include:
- Time Commitment: Ensure both parents are aligned on the time and effort required, especially for travel sports.
- Transportation and Scheduling: Plan ahead for practices, games, and tournaments to avoid conflicts.
- Sharing Costs: Establish a plan for splitting expenses like equipment, travel, and registration fees.
Addressing these areas upfront can prevent disagreements and help both parents focus on their child’s growth and enjoyment.
Protect Youth Sports as a “Safe Haven”
Rebecca highlighted how sports can serve as a “safe haven” for children, especially in families dealing with divorce or separation. However, public disagreements between parents at sporting events can damage this positive space.
She advised parents to keep personal conflicts private and maintain a supportive presence during games and practices. Children thrive when their sporting activities remain a safe and stress-free outlet.
Social Media and Children’s Digital Footprint
Social media adds a modern layer of complexity to co-parenting. Rebecca discussed how parents often create a child’s digital footprint without considering long-term implications.
For divorced families, disagreements over what to post can become a significant source of conflict. Rebecca encourages parents to think critically about the following:
- Privacy: Consider how public posts might affect your child in the future.
- Consent: Be mindful of sharing photos or videos without your child’s input.
- Consistency: Work together to establish boundaries for social media use.
This advice applies to all parents, not just divorced ones, as the impact of social media extends far beyond family dynamics.
Navigating the Rising Costs of Youth Sports
The financial demands of youth sports can strain any family, and divorced parents often face additional challenges. Rebecca highlighted the importance of open communication and fairness when managing expenses, including:
- Equipment Costs: From hockey gear to ballet costumes, these expenses add up quickly.
- Travel Expenses: Hotel stays, flights, and tournament fees can become major financial burdens.
- Registration Fees: Participation in leagues and clubs often requires a significant investment.
Rebecca recommended splitting costs equitably to avoid resentment and ensure that the child’s best interests remain the top priority.
Proactive Planning Leads to Better Co-Parenting
Whether it’s managing logistics, addressing financial burdens, or protecting a child’s emotional well-being, successful co-parenting requires collaboration and proactive planning. Rebecca’s experience as a family law attorney has shown that every family’s situation is unique, and solutions should be tailored accordingly.
Rebecca Frino, Esq., is a dedicated advocate for families navigating complex legal and emotional challenges. As a Partner at Mandelbaum Barrett PC, she brings not only legal expertise but also empathy and mediation skills to help parents find workable solutions.
Her insights on co-parenting and youth sports provide a valuable roadmap for parents striving to create a positive environment for their children.
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